Love Falls
Happy White Valentine! Probably by the time I put this up it would already be past 12. Oops!
To those who did'nt know this, apparently white valentine is a day to make up to those who could'nt celebrate Valentine's Day. Well, I did'nt celebrate either one and both day ended up staying at home all day long. :/
We live in a world that constantly judges us does'nt it? Even when it comes to love, it turns out to be a day for all the singles out there to be so self-conscious and worry about being alone. Why is it something so beautiful has a need to exert a negative stigma to it? Why can't Valentine's Day just be a day to commemorate the love and not to point out how sad it is to be alone?
In fact, what is so sad about being alone? I know I joke a lot about being #foreveralone but I dun feel the need to put myself through any unworthy & unhealthy relationship just to not be alone. If you can find someone who truly loves you, accept your flaws and most importantly, at all circumstances, he acknowledges that his duty is to comfort and not judge, then by all means! However, if you are very unfortunate and end up meeting a person who tells you that you are just not good enough for him, abuse you emotionally and can't remain faithful to you (not just literal cheating but even to those whose mind&heart are still looking around), what is the point?
If Valentine's Day is meant to be celebrated with the people you love, then I would rather spend it with my family.
You might not always like your family but you will always love them.
They will always be so protective and tell you how precious you are to them. Even if not verbally (like my parents), they would not use their actions to show it. I try to remind myself constantly that if God, my parents and friends love me so dearly and count me as someone who is so worthy and precious, I should never let someone else to hurt me and tell me otherwise because allowing these people to do so will only hurt the people who have ever truly cared about me.
Love has always been a beautiful thing. Perhaps even beyond words to describe the beauty of love.
Love does not hurt. It is the lies and betrayals that hurts. In the end, it is love that heals them all.
Juniel and Jong Hyun fits so well together and this is such a cute song to reflect the innocence of falling in love. I too am a girl who wishes that they never need to be so complicated.
On another note, even though I did nothing on FEB 14TH, one very interesting and fun thing happened. Actually it was not fun for me, it was just wth but I guess to few of the AF3 peeboes it was fun >.> There were 3 guys who smsed me saying that they picked up my mandarin orange from some temple. Apparently there is my name, number and age. fml and theirs for picking it up. I have to explained to them and in fact I have to convince them that it is not my orange, I have never stepped out of my house the whole day and as single as I am... I HAVE NO INTENTION IN DATING SOMEONE THROUGH AN ORANGE!
Man, some just do not believe me and said things like "oh! it must be your best friend who did it for you because it has all your details!" The universe must have one hell of humour to play this joke on me. T.T
My friends were laughing so badly (even though I really dunno what is so funny) when they saw the messages, they actually used my phone and ask one the guy out! I felt so guilty for the guy and to avoid awkward situation, I ended up blocking the guy but somehow it was unblocked and I ended up apologising to him.
To those who did'nt know this, apparently white valentine is a day to make up to those who could'nt celebrate Valentine's Day. Well, I did'nt celebrate either one and both day ended up staying at home all day long. :/
We live in a world that constantly judges us does'nt it? Even when it comes to love, it turns out to be a day for all the singles out there to be so self-conscious and worry about being alone. Why is it something so beautiful has a need to exert a negative stigma to it? Why can't Valentine's Day just be a day to commemorate the love and not to point out how sad it is to be alone?
In fact, what is so sad about being alone? I know I joke a lot about being #foreveralone but I dun feel the need to put myself through any unworthy & unhealthy relationship just to not be alone. If you can find someone who truly loves you, accept your flaws and most importantly, at all circumstances, he acknowledges that his duty is to comfort and not judge, then by all means! However, if you are very unfortunate and end up meeting a person who tells you that you are just not good enough for him, abuse you emotionally and can't remain faithful to you (not just literal cheating but even to those whose mind&heart are still looking around), what is the point?
If Valentine's Day is meant to be celebrated with the people you love, then I would rather spend it with my family.
You might not always like your family but you will always love them.
They will always be so protective and tell you how precious you are to them. Even if not verbally (like my parents), they would not use their actions to show it. I try to remind myself constantly that if God, my parents and friends love me so dearly and count me as someone who is so worthy and precious, I should never let someone else to hurt me and tell me otherwise because allowing these people to do so will only hurt the people who have ever truly cared about me.
Love has always been a beautiful thing. Perhaps even beyond words to describe the beauty of love.
Love does not hurt. It is the lies and betrayals that hurts. In the end, it is love that heals them all.
Juniel and Jong Hyun fits so well together and this is such a cute song to reflect the innocence of falling in love. I too am a girl who wishes that they never need to be so complicated.
Man, some just do not believe me and said things like "oh! it must be your best friend who did it for you because it has all your details!" The universe must have one hell of humour to play this joke on me. T.T
My friends were laughing so badly (even though I really dunno what is so funny) when they saw the messages, they actually used my phone and ask one the guy out! I felt so guilty for the guy and to avoid awkward situation, I ended up blocking the guy but somehow it was unblocked and I ended up apologising to him.
xoxo
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